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7 MOST VITAL KEYS FOR PERSONAL GROWTH

Personal growth is a lifelong journey that requires dedication and self-reflection. This does not happen overnight, it is worked for; that is, it is an intentional act. In a world were men settle easily for what life gives them rather than go for what they want, personal growth has become a thing of intentionality and determination. I am aware that talking about being better is not only called motivational speaking, but it has become something you must fight for if you desire it. But we want to be the best versions of ourselves so, here are seven vital keys for personal growth. 1. Self-awareness Developing self-awareness is essential for personal growth. It involves understanding your strengths, weaknesses, values, and beliefs. This knowledge allows you to make conscious choices aligned with your authentic self. 2. Setting goals Setting clear and achievable goals provides direction and motivation for personal growth. Break down your long-term goals into smaller, manageable steps to mak...

DIVORCING OLD KNOWLEDGE, EMBRACING THE NEW: 7 steps to a brand new you

 It is a grave decision to revolve around the old and expect new things to happen. "Insanity is doing the same thing expecting a different result" ~Brian Tracy Divorcing old knowledge and embracing the new is an essential process in personal growth, professional development, and the advancement of society. To divorce old ideas, you must let go of outdated beliefs, ideologies, and practices. You must be open to accepting and incorporating fresh perspectives, insights, and information.  Here, I recommend detailed explanation on the significant steps involved in divorcing old knowledge and embracing the new. 1. Recognize the need for change The first step is acknowledging that the old knowledge or way of thinking is no longer serving its purpose. This realization can emerge from various sources like increased awareness, exposure to contrasting viewpoints, or evidence that suggest change is needed  2. Be open-minded Embracing the new requires cultivating an open mind. It wou...

MASTERING SELF FOR SUCCESS

  Defeating oneself and successfully scaling the ladder of success is a challenging yet fulfilling endeavor. It requires a deep understanding of one's strengths, weaknesses, and a strong commitment towards personal growth. The apostle Paul in the holy book admonished that we put our bodies under subjection. The author Brian Tracy calls this "Self Mastery" It takes a high level of strength to defeat self because when it comes to ourselves, we most times get sentimental. If you desire Self Mastery, note the following: Set Clear Goals Begin by defining your long-term vision and then breaking it down into smaller, achievable goals. Clearly delineate the milestones you need to reach in order to climb the success ladder.   Self-Awareness Understand your strengths, weaknesses, values, and passions. Identifying your areas for improvement is crucial for self-development. Self-awareness enables you to leverage your strengths and address your weaknesses strategically. Continue Learn...

CREATING SUPPORT SYSTEMS FOR EXTRAORDINARY SUCCESS

No one man can achieve success alone. No one can be an island. The idea of reaching heights by oneself is a selfish concept and ends in underperformance or self-criticism. To be happy and successful on earth, you just have to have people that you rely on ."  ~ Michael Schur Creating support systems for success involves establishing a network of resources , relationships , and strategies aimed at facilitating personal and professional growth. To create an effective support system, you must first consider the following: Your Goals Clearly define your goals and aspirations. What does success mean to you?  What would happen in your life to mean you have achieved success? Having a clear vision will help you understand what kind of support you need.  Your Needs Clearly define what you have and what you need to attain the next level of your success. You must be truthful to yourself as you begin this journey of building connections with men and growing. Now, you can begin to bui...

MAXIMIZING YOUR TIME FOR PRODUCTIVITY

Time is an essential commodity, and it is perishable. It is almost difficult and impossible to gain back time lost; So maximizing time is a valuable skill that can greatly enhance productivity and efficiency in both personal and professional aspects of life.  Since time is perishable and if lost is lost, here are several strategies and practices that can help you make the most out of your time: Prioritize and set clear goals Start by identifying your most important objectives and goals. Break them down into smaller, actionable tasks and prioritize them based on their urgency and importance. This helps you focus your time and energy on the activities that matter the most. Plan and organize Develop a systematic approach to managing your time. Utilize various time management tools such as calendars, planners, or project management software to schedule your tasks and allocate specific time slots for each activity. This allows you to visualize your commitments and make efficient use of ...

DANGERS OF LIVING A HURDLE LESS LIFE

Living a hurdle less life may seem appealing at first glance, but it can lead to several potential dangers and pitfalls because hurdles are far deeper than what we see them for: they are a test to our depth, width and might. While it is natural for individuals to desire ease and comfort, constant smooth sailing without facing any challenges can hinder personal growth, create a false sense of security, and limit one's ability to handle adversity.  It is important to recognize the potential drawbacks of a life devoid of obstacles.   Stagnation and lack of personal growth Overcoming challenges is an integral part of personal development. Hurdles force us to step out of our comfort zones, learn new skills, and adapt to new situations. Without obstacles to push us, we may find ourselves stuck in a state of complacency, lacking the motivation or drive to explore new opportunities and expand our horizons.   Lack of resilience and coping mechanisms Facing and overcoming challenge...